When non-heteronormative genders and sexualities became criminal and then medical diagnoses (a flaw to be corrected), those who didnโt fit neatly into heteronormativity were forced into a closet. Even from that closet, though, LGBT+ folks have found ways to embrace and celebrate who they are โ from using subversive coded language to carving out safe spaces in the margins and underground.
As early as the 1920s, there were fearless souls like Ma Rainey, whose bluesy lyrics spoke frankly about queer themes. โI want the whole world to know,โ she croons in โProve It On Me Blues,โ a song about her same-sex attraction and preference for androgynous clothing.
Throughout the 20th century, vaudeville, nightclubs, and various independent record labels continued to provide a space for queer music to grow and thrive in the United States โ though aspirations of going mainstream typically meant hiding your sexuality and recoding your love in heterosexual terms in your love songs.
It wouldnโt be until 1973, when Bruce Wayne Campbell debuted as Jobriath, that the United States would see its first openly gay rock star signed to a major label. His career was cut short, however, because, even though David Bowie and other glam rockers of the day were heavy-handed in their hinting at queerness, Jobriathโs decision to be open and proud of being gay was met with derision from straight audiences who seemed intent on pretending that glam rock was not, at its core, about challenging gender and sexual norms.
Since then, the story of LGBT+ artists in the music industry has been a slow and (mostly) steady push toward increased tolerance and acceptance. Today, we have a vibrant and diverse scene of LGBT+ artists across all genres who are singing about love and no longer coding it in heteronormative terms. This mixtape is a journey through the joy, the pain, the work, and the reward of love.
Evann McIntosh
The Kansas-based alt-R&B artist is only 17 years old but has already put out two albums full of tracks that alternate between soulful and danceable. That youthfulness does come through in the lyrics that are often about growth and figuring out your identity.
Their love songs are usually sung from a distance, like โYoursโ which describes a fantasized relationship with a crush.
Similarly, โDo U Mind?โ is a song of worship for the one they love.
Dua Saleh
The Minnesota-based singer debuted with their EP Nลซr in 2019 but had been writing poetry since childhood, using it as a way to navigate the challenges of being a Sudanese refugee in Minnesota. That poetic sensibility comes through heavily in their lyrics, which are sung over pop, R&B, or hip hop beats.
With a lot of explicit (and hot) lyrics about queer desire, Salehโs music reaches out to closeted LGBT+ kids with songs that represent the lived and embodied experience of queerness, rather than the politics or intellectual theory of gender and sexuality.
In other words, Dua Salehโs syrupy voice and sensual themes are ideal for setting the mood when things are about to get hot and heavy.
In โUmbrellar,โ itโs an otherworldly, transcendent kind of sensuality with lyrics like โLast pint from that last night/ I donโt know if that was real/ And I swear Iโm superstitious/ Bout her sex appeal.”
In โPretty Kitten,โ they take you from explicit lyrics like โWhat you want yourself a licking/ Baby you gon’ be my kittenโ to more ambiguous poetic lines like โLet me roll this solemn sin/ Winter rolls into the wind/ Bitter broken once again.โ
Alongside the sensuality, thereโs also a satirical thread that calls attention to the way queer desire is erased or suppressed in culture and history. In โHellbound,โ they adopt a persona named Lucifer Labelle, who is shamelessly seductive and challenges the fanatical religious idea that queerness is a sin and that LGBT+ folks are all condemned to hell.
Quentin Arispe
Austin-based Quentin Arispe blends folk, R&B, and hip hop into albums that are musically diverse enough to capture all your feelings. Their lyrics are emotional, spiritual, and empowered in turns ranging from soft, intimate love songs like โI Wanna Get Married,โ
To more poppy songs about crushes and the first sparks of love like โNo You Hang Up,โ
To melodic, acoustic tracks like โCall It on,โ where the lyrics refuse to accept the end of a relationship, even though the other person has moved on.
Dodie
For a more acoustic, cozy sound, turn to Dodie. The English singer-songwriter got her start uploading original songs and covers to her YouTube channel at the age of 12. But her debut album didnโt come out until 2017.
With a sound that lives somewhere between folk and bedroom pop, Dodie whispers melodies into your ear that are sometimes sad, sometimes warm and happy, but always vulnerable and honest.
In โShe,โ Dodie navigates a desire that is both unwelcome and not tolerated by the society she lives in and the complexity that brings, when desire and shame get wrapped up into one messy feeling. The chorus captures that well when she sings, โIโd never tell/ No, Iโd never say a word/ And oh, it aches/ But it feels oddly good to hurt.โ
Meanwhile, โArms Unfoldingโ describes the messiness of a breakup that isnโt quite a clean break and the way love can wax and wane in the course of a relationship. โBut here I am with arms unfolding/ I guess it isnโt quite the end,โ she sings.
Finally, for a happier, cozier love, the Christmas cover she released last year with Laufey, โLove to Keep Me Warm,โ has all the vibes of โBaby, Itโs Cold Outsideโ with none of the rape culture undertones:
Joy Oladokun
Joy Oladokun digs up all the complexities, challenges, and pleasures of relationships in her heavily country-tinged rock and R&B tracks. The distinctive blend gives her music enough texture to match the layers of nuance in her lyrics.
โBrick by Brick,โ for example, is a tender and honest song about the (worthwhile) work of maintaining a long-term relationship, featuring this impeccable chorus:
โBrick by brick
Sing praise to the ghosts of our past
Who let us slip
Through sandcastle hands
Brick by brick
Weโll do everything we know how
To make sure that this love is the lastโ
Similarly, in โFight for It,โ Oladokun talks about the difficulties and low points in relationships and the fact that love often involves making the conscious choice to push through, even when itโs not easy.
Then she gives us gorgeous and powerful tracks like โJordan,โ which has all the spiritual force of a religious hymnal as she talks about the way love can make you stronger and give you the courage to be yourself in a society that is regularly trying to keep you down:
โThey told me heโs a good Lord
As they tied shackles to my feet
They drowned me in the Jordan
And then they walked away from me
[โฆ]
That is where you found me
Grace and whisky on your breath
You pulled me back on my feet
And taught me how to dance againโ
Shura
Blending electropop and synth-pop into ethereal soundscapes that will swallow you whole. The Russian-English singer-songwriterโs 2019 album, Forevher, is basically a love letter to her girlfriend, featuring lusty songs like โReligion (u can lay your hands on me),โ
As well as romantic songs like โControl,โ that talk about the vulnerability and trust that go into a relationship with lyrics like โYouโll be the pilot, Iโll let you fly it.โ
And then there are songs like โskyline, be mineโ that are mix of both with lyrics like โSee your body in the skyline/ Took so long for you to be mine.โ
Ezra Furman
After getting her start as the lead singer and guitarist of Ezra Furman and the Harpoons, Furman went solo with the 2012 album, The Year of No Returning. Her songs often deal with unrequited love, or the dangerous side of love, but some of the more positive songs emphasize the sense of acceptance and affirmation that it can provide.
Take for example โLay in the Sun,โ in which two lovers are alone in the world, providing the acceptance and safety for each other that they arenโt getting from the world around them.
โOut on the desert when the stars come out
All the cars fly by like rain
Iโll let you show me what youโre all about
And you wonโt have to explain.โ
Meanwhile, songs like โI Wanna Be Your Girlfriend,โ capture the feeling of acceptance being impossible in love. Though she only came out publicly as a transwoman last year, the 2019 song touches on the anxiety that can come with being trans and in love with lyrics like, โI know that I donโt have the body you want in a girlfriend / What Iโm working with is less than ideal / But maybe, baby, itโs not all about what you thought that you wanted / Itโs about the way I can make you feel.โ
Then, โDriving Down to LA,โ describes the trust and letting go that borders on recklessness that can come with falling in love when she sings, โNo, I donโt mind/ If I lose my legs or die/ Iโve built a home inside his eyes/ And I ainโt leavinโโ
Time to expand my playlist beyond Girl in Red